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Saturday, 15 June 2019

UNPROFITABLE GIFTS FOR YOUR CONSUMPTION --------------------------------------------------Siloko Oyintari Ben





Often times, people always discourage others from pursing their dreams. They look at you and ask, “What do you stand to gain from this society that is full of CONNECTIONS? They will even go further to tell you to your face that you will never succeed. The moment you listen to them and succumb to deviate from your mission in life, you will forever live to regret the action you took. At that point in life, you have stopped living, but because of your breath, you will start existing without dreams.

Using myself as an example, publishing my second book, “Fulfilling my Dream” wasn’t achieved as a free drink, or a platter of gold. It required focus and determination to fulfil the dream of publishing the book. Moments came when quitting became a best option for me due to the setbacks, but determination brought me off the floor, so I won’t eat the dirt thrown at me.

People are permitted to throw dirt’s on you, but the question is, ‘WILL YOU EAT IT?’ The reason I refused to eat dirt was because I had a vision, with a great strategic mission. My drive for my publication continued until the book, FULFILLING MY DREAM’ was published.

The story above can be likened unto a high level of commitment, not the kind of commitment that you speak with your mouth, and back off when challenges come. Christopher Columbus asserted that you can never cross the ocean unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore. There was a success story attached to the book fulfilling my dream. If I had given up, the success story wouldn’t have emerged. Sometimes you have to tell that negative thought an upper case letter NO, not a lower case no. 

There should be power in your determination. Within the first month of publishing the book, a school requested for a thousand copies, because they saw the potential in the book to transform their students; State Governments approved for schools in their various states.

Siloko Oyintari Ben said, “Never give up because you don’t know which phase of your life will unlock your success story.” Can you be traveling to a particular destination and stop thirty minutes before arriving at your destination, after travelling for nine hours and say you are going back to the exact point you started your journey simply because you were impatient. If you do that, you are only putting more burden on your shoulders.

Don’t let people know your weakness, because they will constantly buy you those things that make you weak, knowing fully well that you can’t resist accepting, which in turn tears you apart.


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